"I recently took a 2-hour workshop led by Ernest l and just when I thought I couldn’t have any additional breakthroughs in my life, I did. This year I have been struggling with anxiety and depression. Through the work we did, I saw for the first time that I was living and operating like my life didn’t matter. In a follow up session with Ernest reflecting on what I got, I realized I had to start making different choices and taking different actions, in my life, one at a time. As a result, we set up an accountability plan and I am now extremely empowered around my physical and emotional health and well-being. I'm counting my steps and logging my meals in a food tracker daily and most importantly, I set up an appointment with a Reproductive Endocrinologist to explore having a child as a single woman! That was never going to happen without the behavioral work I did with Ernest."

"Ernest counseled me around a huge stalemate in my acting career. No matter how hard I worked, or prepared, I couldn’t get a job. Directors would make promises and never follow up. Casting agents wouldn’t remember seeing me. I felt stuck and powerless. During my session with Ernest I got clarity around the fact that the results I was producing (no work) were in direct correlation to the behaviors I was engaging in as I interacted with the people I was auditioning for. I had no confidence in my abilities and myself. After doing 2 hours of work around this, a few days later I got cast in a short movie and during the following month I was cast in pilot for a new series. In addition, I’m currently working on a new project that I’m also producing. I’m in action around what I’m committed to and I’m producing results!"

"I have been a social influencer and blogger for the past 11 years. I reach and impact over 200K monthly followers. Despite all that, I have only formed 4 paid partnerships in 11 years. All the brands I spoke with gave me the same answer, “We’d love to work with you, however we don’t have any money because of the pandemic”. This put me in the position of doing a lot of work for free. I was really getting resentful and disappointed and so I scheduled a few sessions with Ernest. Since our conversations (6 weeks ago), I landed 9 paid partnerships and got hired as a social media manager for one of the overseas brands I reached out to. I now feel unstoppable. Thank you Ernest!!!"

"When my daughter passed away at age 54, I went into a severe depression for 3 years. I mostly disengaged with the world, gave up on life, and felt like a loser because I couldn’t save her. I was angry and did not allow myself to surrender to my feelings. I just got stiff and put up walls of resistance to people and living life. Ernest was one of the very few people who listened, heard what I had to say, and didn’t make me feel embarrassed about my behaviors. Not only was he able to hear me like no one else could, he was able to see things that I couldn’t. After working for a few months I saw that the behaviors that I was relying on were formed and created many years ago. We got to the root of the issue and created what life could look like if I worked on new behaviors in response to my circumstances. I began going out every day and having adventures. I re- engaged with family, friends, and organizations and groups that support other people. I can now honor my daughter and my feelings while fully living my life."

"When my marriage ended and my ex-husband and I were in the process of creating a co-parenting relationship, I was stuck in my opinions and long-standing feelings of mistrust and anger. Every conversation produced a negative reaction. Being vindicated became just as important as my daughter’s future. In working with Ernest I was able to gain clarity around my feelings. I saw that even though my ex- husband was not perfect, everything he said was made worse because of deep-seated conditioned reactions based in past failures with men and in life. Over time, with Ernest’s support, my ex and I created a peaceful, loving, and respectful environment in which to raise our daughter. Working with Ernest allowed me to manifest a family dynamic that for many people experiencing the same circumstances is absolutely not possible. My daughter is brilliant, her relationship with her mother and father is thriving and our family is healed."

"Ernest Biscardi's Clarity Workshop (and the individual work that followed), has altered my life in ways that over 30 years of self-help seminars and workshops could not and did not achieve. What I found life changing was his ability to get to the source of the automatic behaviors that I exhibited and then be able to decondition those behaviors thus allowing me to take actions that I never thought were possible. Ernest was able to help me find the logic in my behaviors based on my upbringing and past experiences. He has the amazing ability to cut through my fears and get me to the root of my issues He made it simple and easy to understand and as a result, I have permanently shifted my relationship with myself, my family, my friends, my wife, and my career. One of the biggest results is that I am speaking and communicating with my sister for the first time in 30 years."

"Ernest is always loving and understanding and has a unique way of listening for what is important. He consistently can see what’s important to you even before you do. My wife and I have the pleasure of getting ongoing counseling from Ernest. Through this work, we were able to powerfully face and gain clarity around one of the hardest issues we were confronting: not being aligned on having children. As a result of the work we did with Ernest and gaining clarity around the issue, we navigated our crisis with open communication, vulnerability, and no blame or anger toward each other. I saw that my behaviors were based in the thought that I needed a child to have purpose. In the end (regardless of what might be true for other people), I saw that I personally do not need a son or a daughter to create a legacy or have purpose in my life. In addition to the feeling of extremely liberation, I realized that if the issue was left unaddressed, it could have ended our relationship. We are the happy and loving couple we are today as a direct result of Ernest’s contribution."

"There was not a difference that anyone could make for me. I had been through it all, seen it all, and did it all. The only thing I could trust was if I wanted something done the right way, I had to do it myself. I didn't trust people, didn't know how to trust them, and wasn't even sure I wanted to. I was on my own, exhausted, lonely and grew tired of it all.

When I was introduced to Ernest, I didn't care about his PhD. I wasn't sure he could get my world - a fierce, high results-producing, self-made, Black, queer, transgender, CSA and PTSD surviving adoptee. But what I learned about Ernest quickly is that he is not only uniquely masterful in his listening and communication skills, he's also someone who knows, firsthand, what it feels like to go through deep trauma and work through it. He's a real, authentic, down to earth guy. He heard me at every level.

What has Ernest’s counseling produced in my life? A marriage, my own home, my own business which serves communities throughout the United States and the world, peace of mind, and a sense of confidence and self-worth that can never be taken away. Ernest Biscardi earned my trust and my respect and made a difference where no one else could."

"Where do I start? My vision board came to life because of the work I did with Ernest. I was a single girl living in NYC just getting out of a relationship (again), when I started working with Ernest. My dream was to be married and have children. Through our work I saw that my behaviors and actions didn't reflect the things that I said I wanted. I discovered that I didn't love or appreciate myself and yet I expected to meet someone that would. Ernest allowed me to be open and honest with zero judgment. He created a safe place for me to see and understand where my conditioned behaviors came from. By realizing that my past experiences and behaviors do not have to define my present or my future, I learned how to actually get the life I wanted. I got to a place where I was clear about my worth, started loving myself, and creating new behaviors around men and dating. As a result, I met someone within 7 months and we were engaged shortly after. Now, four years later, we have three beautiful daughters, a loving family, and a wonderful marriage."

“Less than two months before our wedding, my partner of 30 years died suddenly. In addition to my paralyzing grief, there was the extra burden of navigating a system where as a gay woman I had no legal rights. Arranging the funeral, flying her body back to our home state, dealing with lawyers, and canceling a wedding that was pristinely arranged, was almost too much to take. My conditioned way of handling things, which was to just listen and do what other people told me to do, was not going to work here. The conditioning was so deeply ingrained that I almost couldn’t make a decision that I didn’t doubt. It was one of the few times in my life that I felt alone and powerless. Having known and worked with Ernest for many years, I immediately reached out for support. We worked together on finding the root of my behaviors and got clarity around what I needed to do and the confidence I needed to do it. As a result, I achieved what many would consider the impossible around the funeral, the canceling of wedding, and my grief. Everything got handled and I was in charge. In addition to confidence and self worth, the most important thing I got was the ability to look back and be comforted by all the joy and love we shared while not being fixated on what I had lost, or would not have going forward. It’s been a few years now and I am actively exploring having a new relationship.”